I tie my skates in a way that I find gives me plenty of forward flex and pulls in the sides of the boot for support. Give it a try and see if it works for you. See pics below.    To tie them, thread the laces through the loop created by the lace between eyelets three and four, tug tight, and tie as normal. You don't have to do any tightening of the upper boot laces before that one tug before tying.