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blueliner27

how to make a girl friend?

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God bless those that could take the height difference. Not that I was discriminating against it, but that just didn't work for me.

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Mack that is a solid pickup I'll give it a shot sometime. I think the tallest girl i've been with is 5'4, must be something about the cold Winnipeg weather and women.

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Ive only dated short girls. im 6'5 my last girlfriend was 5'2.

theres no way to be super smooth about it. just go with it. play the awkward tall guy thing. it'll reel them in.

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blueliner, glad it all went well with the second girl. Must say that the first girl would have been super pissed when you rejected her at the dance itself. Great job, hats off to ya mate.

anyway, I dont date girls taller than 5'10", somehow they just freak me out... I went out with a friend's sister a quite a few years back. She was 5'10" and wasnt bad looking, just didnt really feel the vibe (not that vib)... she ended up winning the country's beauty pageant. Another one i dated ended up on a magazine cover... doesnt matter, am happy where I am now, only wish I had more gorgeous babes to hang around with (most of those that we hang out with these days have long gone beyond the point of letting themselves go...........)

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I'm 5'4"... so haven't found a guy yet that was too short or too tall for me. My "best" break up line of all time was with a guy who was 6'4"... I told him nicely and clearly why it wasn't working. He couldn't get it, couldn't believe I was dumping him and got insistent about why? there HAS to be a reason other than what I'd already told him.

*thinking*

moment of inspiration... I told him...

"I am tired of arm pits"

seemed to satisfy him... sheesh

Very cool Blueliner... glad things are going so well for you! (And glad you took the "high road" with girl #1... don't need to be a jerk just cuz she's clearly a b*tch)

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God bless those that could take the height difference. Not that I was discriminating against it, but that just didn't work for me.

one of the biggest discrepancies i've ever seen is bret hedican and kristi yamaguchi... he looks like he'd break her in two

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Any thoughts?

You're making this more difficult than it needs to be.

I understand it's nerve racking but, just as with a guy friend, you're either going to click with the girl or you're not. If the conversation flows, you're clicking; if the conversation doesn't flow, you're not a good match. All you're trying to do is find someone you enjoy hanging out with, but if you're worried whether every action or word is the "right" thing, then the real you won't come across.

I don't act much differently around my wife than I do around my guy friends, which is why she's now my best friend. That's what you're looking for -- someone who likes you and laughs at your jokes. When you meet that person, you won't have any questions whether you've done or said the right thing.

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Iam looking for some ideas dealing with little romantic gestures, such as giving ur gf a rose. just some ideas that you can do for no reason to romanticize your significant other.

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Listen. Assuming she's like 99.9999999999999% of the rest of the girls on Earth she'll mention (subtly) that she likes something. Don't pay any mind at that time then go back and surprise her with that.

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You must always be listening for hints. Every time a holiday comes around (Christmas, valentine's Day, Birthdays, etc) you'll need to use these little hints to get any shopping done at all. Listen for favorite colors, favorite activities, favorite memories (which can tell you about things she likes), etc.

And she'll think you're awesome for listening to her, even if you are actually daydreaming about hockey instead of listening.

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Exactly. It's usually obvious around the token days "anniversary, birthdays, holidays, etc) but listen all the time. I had a story about what I did on our first anniversary but I won't re-tell it because I don't like bragging about being the most romantic motherfucker on Earth. I have a reputation to keep.

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