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Mark

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I'm in grade 9 as well and this is how I did it to my girlfriend...

We were talking one day at school and I asked her if she was doing anything that night. She said no so I invited her to my hockey game. She came with a friend of hers so she didnt have to be alone there.

We drove her friend home first and then dropped her off. I walked her to the door and simply asked her if she would go out with me. She said of course I will and then we exchanged a "hug and goodnight kiss".

I ran back to my van and told my dad that I scored. (I really did score in the game and he thought thats what i meant but I told him what i really meant and he laughed at me)

anyways good luck man. Youll regret it if you never do it. Iam glad I did it. we have a blast together.

Derek

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Haha like freg said it you can talk to your friends about it after if it doesnt happen for you. I'd say just take it like a champ and ask her and if she says no then her loss, if she says yes then go for it.

Ya Sam because you get all of the girls at school. LOL just joshing.

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We drove her friend home first and then dropped her off. I walked her to the door and simply asked her if she would go out with me. She said of course I will and then we exchanged a "hug and goodnight kiss".

did you have a shower after your game or does your girlfriend like you alot? ;)

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my ex never said anything about the smell but i knew it bugged her cuz of the faces she did.

Theere was this girl ive known for 2years and finnaly last year we became rly good friends. Before school ended last June I told her i liked her alot and that i was going to miss her because i wasnt going to see her for 2 months. But she said that we could do "stuff" during summer if i want. I said of course and was totally excited that she actually wanted to see me during summer. We went out like once a week, movies, and just hung out. walks and stuff. Then September comes along and school and she goes back with her ex. I was totally clueless....didnt summer mean anything at all? Well now shes been with her ex for around 4months and her and me are still really close but I did the hugeee mistake of sorta asking her to do something during a weekend and she said she couldnt anyomre because she has a bf now and it makes sense. So so much for last summer.But watever i just got to let her go.

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ya...so it all worked out for me, I asked her out, she said yes. its been a couple days since, things are going well between us. thanks alot for all of your input and help

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ya...so it all worked out for me, I asked her out, she said yes. its been a couple days since, things are going well between us. thanks alot for all of your input and help

Cool man. Congrats! B)

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didnt want to satrt a new thread...

im having some girl truoble now... i really like this girl and we talk alot at school and msn etc. but im not sure if she likes me i really like her but i dont kno how to tell her cuz i really dont want to be rejected. it seems like she likes me but she could be playin me. we were suppost to go to the movies today but that kinda fell thru. so what do you guys think i should? i was thinking about asking one of her friends if shes likes me. but i dont kno. what do you guys think?

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Don't hide from the possibility of being rejected. It will happen in every aspect of your life at some point. It isn't the end of the world.

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Haha like freg said it you can talk to your friends about it after if it doesnt happen for you. I'd say just take it like a champ and ask her and if she says no then her loss, if she says yes then go for it.

Ya Sam because you get all of the girls at school. LOL just joshing.

I'm a month late on this one, but why would you want to get the girls at our school...? They are all the biggest shovels ever.

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didnt want to satrt a new thread...

im having some girl truoble now... i really like this girl and we talk alot at school and msn etc. but im not sure if she likes me i really like her but i dont kno how to tell her cuz i really dont want to be rejected. it seems like she likes me but she could be playin me. we were suppost to go to the movies today but that kinda fell thru. so what do you guys think i should? i was thinking about asking one of her friends if shes likes me. but i dont kno. what do you guys think?

Don't fear of being rejected, that's how you will become a real man.

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everything sounds stupid because you're afraid of failure so you try to find fault in everything. forget about what sounds good or not and just ask her to go out and do something with you.

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Ask her if she likes you. Don't candycoat it, don't beat around the bush, just come straight out and ask. Confidence goes a long way towards getting the girl. Being a straight shooter is a good policy to keep, b/c it is more successful than them thinking you're squirrely or have no self confidence.

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Just go up, make a litle small talk. Hey how are you, what classes are you taking next year, etc.. you know whatever you young kids talk about these days. Then just ask her if she'd like to come to a movie and then make arrangements if you get a good response. Then I like to get out then, "alright, but I gotta head out. I'll see you then." Give it a go, I'm sure you'll be alright

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ok ill give that a try. as you may have notced i tend to over think things alot. that is a big problem for me i am also worrie alot. hopefully this works out for me.

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Don't hide from the possibility of being rejected. It will happen in every aspect of your life at some point. It isn't the end of the world.

The earlier you realize this, the earlier life becomes a lot less complicated.

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