Nice things to do for a girl

[LetsGoWings13 0]

Just looking for any good ideas on something nice you could do for a girlfriend thats different than just flowers or things like that lol. Any suggestions?

[analog999 0]

Oh my. I can just imagine some of the responses he's about to get.

[mack 44]

I know, I just hope no one puts up a "how to" link.

[badsk8ter 0]

Try, uh, letting her, uh, you know, first, before you do. That shows that you really care... :D

[sdcopp 1]

What kind of budget are you working with here? I personally think flowers are great as a thinking of you thing because they aren't overly expensive but are usually very appreciated. If there's something she really wants to do, like go to a concert, a place to eat, etc., surprise her with it and do it with her. It's amazing how females pick up on genuine thought and care when you do small things, and they're usually pretty good at figuring out when it's insincere too.

[mack 44]

First thing is to notice the most subtle of hints she may have dropped regarding something. It may seem trivial at the time she mentions it but make note, let it simmer and surprise her with it.

[sdcopp 1]

I know, I just hope no one puts up a "how to" link.

Here you go Mack

[sdcopp 1]

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[Fire0nIce228 1]

Its all about being real man..

Something different for her, is not changing after a few months into the person she didnt "fall" for in the first place..

It is about picking up the subtle hints and listening to what she wants to do..

A night of things that shes been wanting to do is something great..

maybe your like me and you live outside of a city..

instead of eating some old resteraunt in your town,

make the drive to the cityand take her somewehre she dont get to go often..

it doesnt ahve to be fancy or expensive, hell, we went to the hard rock cafe..

i'm just willing to bet you treat her the way girls should be treated, and never deviate from that, that you'll be doing plenty to keep her by your side for a long time..

or maybe not. as in my case, lifes not always fair. but im not gonna hijack your thread.

[LkptTiger 1]

First thing is to notice the most subtle of hints she may have dropped regarding something.  It may seem trivial at the time she mentions it but make note, let it simmer and surprise her with it.

Yep.

You would be surprised how well actually listening to a girl works for you. While it does take a little extra effort, it's more than worth it in the long-run. When it comes to stuff like this, it can make your life so much easier. She'll appreciate it, too.

The element of surprise works wonders, too. It shows that you really do think about her, and that you do want her to be happy. If your girl is anything like mine, she spends the vast majority of her time trying to figure-out ways to make you happy (while not always incorporating sexual contact...). It's nice to let her know that you occasionally spend your days doing the same.

Personally, I have no problem with flowers. I sent her a BUNCH of her favorite flowers while she was at school (we went to different high schools, and now different colleges) for our two-year anniversary, and have gotten into the practice of sending them to her dorm now. She loves it. There have been a few days since school has started that I have surprised her by showing-up at her dorm or outside one of her classes. Last week, when I didn't have class because of the big snow storm in the area, I went over to her dorm in the morning before she woke-up, had her roommate get her keys for me, then took her car to fill the gas tank, then bought her breakfast/coffee and brought it to her while she was still in bed.

I always write her notes - some about 2/3 page, others four or five pages. I'll e-mail them to her, or I'll print them out and give them to her when I see her. Sometimes you can cheat and incorporate applicable song lyrics from a favorite band of her's in there, too (luckily, my girl is a Dashboard fan - or at least a fan of their older stuff).

Talk about her when you are with your friends - that kind of stuff gets back to her. She'll love it, especially since she probably talks about you all the time (I know Emily's friends have told me that they are getting sick of hearing about me all the time). I realize that this sounds pretty lame, but my girlfriend and I are (still) obsessed with each other, so...well, I'm not ashamed.

Be random. One night, just show-up at her house with a couple movies (that she has said she wants to see - I don't care how bad they are, those are ALWAYS the ones you go with) and some food. Another night, surprise her and take her out to eat. Or get tickets and take her to a game (hockey or otherwise). If you golf, take her to the driving range (she most likely wants to have some involvement with your other interests) and try to remain patient when she starts joking around - and she will. Go shopping with her - and don't get pissed when she spends an an hour and a half in one store.

Tell her that she's beautiful.

[mack 44]

I've gone to lengths that out-gay you, trust me.

[LkptTiger 1]

...and you're married. That's a double-whammy.

[LegoDoom 0]

I've gone to lengths that out-gay you, trust me.

This doesn't surprise me in the least.

[EBondo 233]

Well. Don't really listen to me on this one unless you wanna go broke. I bought my best friend, and my first love (I've had feelings for her for 3 years) a Tiffany's bracelet for her 16th birthday. But, to make a long story short, she made me send it back. She said it was "too much." I was happy hahahaha

[ponty 0]

I've gone to lengths that out-gay you, trust me.

This doesn't surprise me in the least.

WOW! Mack has been ... well ... "macked"

[LkptTiger 1]

We both know he hasn't...I've seen him come back from much worse...

[Juice_Slowjamz 0]

Four words. Ho. Li. Day. Inn.

[KYHockey3 0]

if she plays hockey, get her something hockey related.

take her to a movie, or do something that she really likes vs. what u want to do

[Meathead 0]

Take her to a movie and then tell her you forgot your wallet. Then you can do a dine and dash from a resturant. When you drop her off back home ask her for gas money.

[KYHockey3 0]

Take her to a movie and then tell her you forgot your wallet. Then you can do a dine and dash from a resturant. When you drop her off back home ask her for gas money.

lol, i bet hed get lots of women this way!

not me

[tokes 0]

My GF's folks were gone all of last week so on Thursdays when I get out of school an hour earlier than here I caught the early bus to her place, grabbed their spare keys they hide in the garage, and went to town! Layed down a trail of rose petals from the door all the way into their bathroom with a jacuzzi in it, had some champagne on ice, candles, and strawberrys + chocolate waiting.

[Guest OSTOR]

I bet that was a good week

Bow Shika Wow Wow

[Hooah4 12]

One time I was dating a girl who loved David Letterman. I lucked out and got tickets (NBC days) through a lottery. Took her during a snowstrom and everything.

Get her pampered at a spa or something like that.

Treat her like a queen.

Act like a man, not a boy.

Love, live, and learn.

Sorry I'm sappy but I got laid last night and I'm still got a post layover.

[KYHockey3 0]

One time I was dating a girl who loved David Letterman.  I lucked out and got tickets (NBC days) through a lottery.  Took her during a snowstrom and everything.

Get her pampered at a spa or something like that.

Treat her like a queen.

Act like a man, not a boy.

Love, live, and learn. 

that is sweet stuff you did.

just do something she really likes~

[mack 44]

I've gone to lengths that out-gay you, trust me.

This doesn't surprise me in the least.

B-. Decent sting but it's very topical and doesn't last. It also gets the "easy kill" point reduction. It would have been a lot more effective if it had any credibility behind it as well.