kovalchuk71 212 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 If anyones like me, i get REALL nervous when it comes to trying to talk to a girl....I studder so much and get really hot....anyone have any tips???? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Briggy 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 First be yourself, when I see a girl I like I usually start off with a compliment. As long as you talk to the girl you havent failed(or rejected) and if she is a bitch F*** her, then she's not someone you want to get to know. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ponty 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Everyone to some degree at some point in their life has felt this way. Hard to explain but the light-bulb - aka confidence will appear sooner or later.Just be yourself and understand she is probably nervous as well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mack 44 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Girls like to laugh, so if you can do that you're golden. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stampeder 2 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Try not to stare at her boobs too much. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ponty 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 They like to laugh and guys who make them feel good about themselves.Its really that simple. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BPPdankplayer21 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 learn french. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flaming_june 2 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 sudder all you want, show her how she makes you feel.just gota have a hook. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChiefsHockey 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Spit game and spread ya name, that way if she gets sick of you..you already got her friends as a target. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chadd 916 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Just talk to them like you would any one of the guys, perhaps a bit more polite and less degrading though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Edge 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 for me i dont think talking to girls like i do my buddies would get me too far with them. lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LegoDoom 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 They like to laugh and guys who make them feel good about themselves.Its really that simple. ponty's got it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bdj 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 I'm gonna have to go with the Laughing thing, just dont make fun off everything around you. They usually hate that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kobe 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Just be confident and you'll be fine. Women are people too so they know how the game works. Also, make sure that your intentions are clear right from the get go (if you're romatically interested in this girl that is) or she might drop your ass straight into the friend pit.This may sound a little shallow but practice on the "aesthetically challenged" girls if you're really that nervous. You're most likely not thinking (too much :P ) about getting into their pants so you can train yourself to relax in that kind of situation. Build up your confidence and then talk to the hotties. They'll actually come to talk to you if you play your cards right. I'm not the pickup guru but lots of confidence and a little bit of mystery can get you just about any woman (except the gold diggers, users, and pro flirters). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bdj 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 I had a friend who cried when a girl asked him about having sex, just thought i'd bring that up Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chadd 916 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 I'm not the pickup guru but lots of confidence and a little bit of mystery can get you just about any woman (except the gold diggers, users, and pro flirters). Bingo, talk about them (without being creepy) or what they want to talk about. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kobe 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Yup. Women love to hear stuff about themselves. Just ask open-ended questions to keep the flow going while she's chatting away and she'll think that you're the best listener in the world. I cannot stress this enough though. Make your intentions clear right from the start. I've had to learn this the hard way. Now I have cute girl friends who I can't bang because I'm in the friend zone. Damn man. There is no return once you fall into that category with women. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chadd 916 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 But the key to a great long term relationship is to have a great friendship with the woman. Fantastic sex doesn't hurt either. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kobe 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Lover first, friend second = long term relationship. Friend first, lover never = end of story.You're married so your vision has been blurred :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LegoDoom 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 As a general rule, I usually wait until I'm feeling the friend thing until I get serious about a girl. Now that doesn't always happen, but at least I try :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kobe 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Maybe I've just had bad luck but I find that it's too late by then Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chadd 916 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 You're married so your vision has been blurred :D I was talking about long term things. Not all of my relationships were like that. ;) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LegoDoom 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Maybe I've just had bad luck but I find that it's too late by then No, definitely show interest. I just don't want it to get too serious until I get to know her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NashvillePreds 1 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Just show em that pic from epuck that's sure to break the ice. Anyway I suggest going to http://www.sosuave.com/ and reading up on the message board and such. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
