Speed Demon 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Hi my name is Dexter and I would like to introduce you all to the "5 Fs"Find em'Feel em'Finger em'F*** em'Forget em'Just joking. Many times I have screwed up when talking to girls.. as a matter of fact I don't think I have ever talked to one girl right. I always say something about sex and say too much "funny" stuff. I would highly recommend not being an idiot and trying to be funny. Some girls don't like to be praised and I suggest the method of being "cool and calm" and saying things at the right time. I will try this method next time lol. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thejackal 46 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 learn french. That's wayy overrated Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mack 44 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 A lot of these things make it look like you want a relationship though, so you're going to have to fight thru that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kovalchuk71 212 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 OK thanks, but what kinda open ended questions should i ask....and how do i get started? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mack 44 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 First off do you have any particular girl in mind and do you even know her (or of her) at all? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kovalchuk71 212 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 ya i kinda know her but not real personally....shes a bit of a prep but has a fun personality.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Eazy_b97 1 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Ask about something in you know she's interested in, hopefully you can get going and have it lead into a great conversation. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mack 44 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Exactly, see what she's interested and go with that. If she's a prep, bust out the Munsingwear or Izod. Music is a great denominator too, so if you can find her taste in that then that's a huge plus. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bdj 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Why? Nervous, scared, the whole smeal. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cds 0 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 You could always try following Ron Burgundys words of wisdom in Eazys sig. ;) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thejackal 46 Report post Posted August 5, 2004 Ask about something in you know she's interested in, hopefully you can get going and have it lead into a great conversation. So basically try to avoid hockey, cars, guns, and any other cool stuff you like. :PSAMPLE CONVO (results not guarenteed):You: "Hi, do you like French Poodles?"Girl (girlish voice): "Wow! You like 'em too! Let's go out!" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MNGopherFan09 0 Report post Posted August 6, 2004 Ironically, a cute blonde just got hired at my work and I was having trouble talking to her and all; then this topic comes up. Perfect timing! Theres some good tips thanks a lot guys. We'll see how it works out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vapor 0 Report post Posted August 6, 2004 just try not to pick up an insecure girl... they will bug the hell out of you. Just joke around with her, and smack her ashe, she smacks back, your in, she gets offended, back off Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bdj 0 Report post Posted August 6, 2004 I say don't smack for atleased a week after you start talking to her, then your golden. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mack 44 Report post Posted August 6, 2004 If you can hang out with her and have fun, I see no reason to have a waiting period. All summer I've goofed with the summer's fresh meat and I'm still in like Flint. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
alex 0 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 pick up a book on communication....this won't only teach you how to talk to the hunnies, but also help you talk to friends, clients, and people in general. In class we were assigned a book and I found it pretty useful. Arnold, E. & Boggs, K.U. (2003). Interpersonal Relationships: Professional Communication Skills For Nurses (4th Ed.). St. Louis: Saundersalso, volunteer at an old folks home. they love to talk. volunteering there will teach you how to communicate better. girls love to talk and so do seniors. learn to listen. it will help you open up better as well. plus, there might fe a few fine hunnies volunteering there as well Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Biskitindabaskit 0 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 lol im screwed with the ass smacking with this one girl. I was at her house with some friends and we were walking out of her room and as I pulled the door shut my hand flew forward and i nailed her right on the ass. (my motor skills wernt very good because I had I tried weed for the first time with her brother liike 20 minutes before this.) she got kinda pissed but she wanted me to come over again next week.I had only met her like 45 minutes earlier. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mack 44 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 45 minutes? that's like going steady. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PH_Hockey2 4 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 Women can be very unpredictable. <_< Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Racer8 0 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 Lots of good advice already, but maybe try a little creative visulaization. If I get nervous before a presentation or public speaking event I just try to imagine my audience in a clown or monkey suit with a funny hat. Conventional wisdom says to imagine your audience in their underwear, but I don't think this will relax you around the hotties. ;) Sounds a bit off, I know, but it works to "humanize" the audience (in this case the girl). Case in point: Imagine the girl. Uhh, ahh. Now imagine her taking a dump. (Don't get carried away...) See? Sort of reduces your anxiety. Suddenly she isn't so perfect and intimidating. She's a person, too. She went from goddess to girl, (which is what she is) and you won't blow the first five minutes trying to calm down. You'll already be relaxed which will help relax her. Also, remember Babe Ruth and Sigmund Freud. Babe Ruth struck out more times than he hit home runs, (and so has every man with women if he's honest) and Freud was never able to answer "what does a women want?" No women has either for that matter. And hey, if that doesn't work try... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thejackal 46 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 ...girls dont want boys girls want cars and monayyy.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stampeder 2 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 ...girls dont want boys girls want cars and monayyy.... Kill yourself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thejackal 46 Report post Posted August 7, 2004 ...girls dont want boys girls want cars and monayyy.... Kill yourself. I dont know what came over me, honest Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Biskitindabaskit 0 Report post Posted August 8, 2004 45 minutes? that's like going steady. lol I only mentioned a timeframe because of a previous post about not swacking untill you have known her for a week. Its kinda funny tho and im never doing weed again. drivin high is fun but dangerous Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dan_The_Man_16 0 Report post Posted August 8, 2004 Driving high is worse then driving drunk. You are honestly an idiot if you have ever done that.Your best bet it to find out what shes into (not really girly things obviously) and learn some about it and talk to about it. Example: I dated this chick who liked riding horses. I learned a bit about horses, and let her explain the rest. Stuff like that works great. Also don't use cheesy pick up lines, I found that out the hard way. Also dont worry if then don't like you. Some girls are really picky and only like certian guys. Treat then nice (open doors, use your manners!) and they willl like you.P.S. Hope you don't meet them when they are on the rag! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
