That's awesome.
Yep, and also heads of official's organizations. USAHockey as a whole needs to begin to look at player safety standards for adult leagues. Things that may be more tolerable in competitive divisions should not be tolerable in non-competitive divisions. I have zero respect for any referee that does not emphasize player safety anymore. And I will take care of things myself if the referees won't now. Sadly, this approach has been working for me. By going nuclear on the ice, it has caused directors and officials to take notice. I make a big enough commotion that they feel something must have happened to get me that angry. This has also given me the opportunity to talk directly to two of the directors of the rinks I play in, and explain exactly where I'm coming from and what I expect. So far both of them have responded pretty well. And actually, I have a better relationship with some of the refs because of it. They know that I'm not going to get on them for little stuff and that I'm going to look for explanations and remain calm. And I will commend them if they do a good job, and give specific details. I do the same to the directors when refs do a good job. Just last game the refs (specifically one who I used to hate) ejected two players with no ceremony. One head butted one of my guys. And it was immediate - whistle, went right over to the door, and told the guy to get off. He tried to argue but there just wasn't the opportunity. Very good job. Everyone knows that is a no-no, but the process is usually a lot less efficient. A second guy was ejected for simply throwing a punch in a net front scrum, even with his glove on. That's something that happens in a lot of games for all of us. It may be only 2 minutes, if that, in the NHL or travel hockey, but there is no place for it in adult hockey. I think that was the first time I've seen someone tossed for it, as it usually goes unpenalized. I told the refs after the handshakes how impressed I was. And I searched out the league director to tell him too.
I am a strong believer that referees should be taking an overly cautious approach to these things. There should be a lot more guys complaining that they were thrown out for no reason than ones wondering how a ref could let that go. At least if you go overboard, you can give a definitive reason to the player. It puts the responsibility on the player to not do dumb things.