EJB 488 Report post Posted February 24, 2016 3 hours ago, Chadd said: I seem to be asking the wrong questions for the answers I'm getting as well. This is not going well at all. I thought my streak of bad luck was coming to an end, but I may have been premature in that assessment. What's going on? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chadd 916 Report post Posted February 25, 2016 On 2/24/2016 at 9:10 PM, EJB said: What's going on? Getting frustrated by certain people. I feel like I'm being set up to fail and everything I do to avoid it results in criticism. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EJB 488 Report post Posted February 26, 2016 Keep your head up, moving forward, I'm sending you good JuJu! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
badger_14 601 Report post Posted February 28, 2016 My mom was in rehab (after hospital) for about a week, but today they did a CT scan and her brain bleed is worse, so they transferred her back to Man's Greatest Hospital for surgery to relieve the pressure. That should happen tomorrow. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmfdm86 112 Report post Posted February 28, 2016 Hang in there. Can't even imagine what that feels like and I have an anxiety disorder. Stay strong. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
badger_14 601 Report post Posted February 28, 2016 (heh, I have an anxiety disorder as well) The hospital decided they'll do surgery tomorrow (Monday), but since my dad's not good at asking questions, I don't know why. I guess it's a positive sign? I'd feel better if I wasn't getting all of this third-hand through my dad, who is not adept at relaying information. (I have a cold right now, so visiting the hospital myself is definitely out of the question.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmfdm86 112 Report post Posted February 28, 2016 7 hours ago, badger_14 said: (heh, I have an anxiety disorder as well) The hospital decided they'll do surgery tomorrow (Monday), but since my dad's not good at asking questions, I don't know why. I guess it's a positive sign? I'd feel better if I wasn't getting all of this third-hand through my dad, who is not adept at relaying information. (I have a cold right now, so visiting the hospital myself is definitely out of the question.) Have you tried calling her doctor? As long as she has you listed as someone they can release her healthcare information to there shouldn't be an issue. But again, with the anxiety thing I know that can be easier said than done sometimes. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
badger_14 601 Report post Posted February 29, 2016 3 hours ago, kmfdm86 said: Have you tried calling her doctor? As long as she has you listed as someone they can release her healthcare information to there shouldn't be an issue. But again, with the anxiety thing I know that can be easier said than done sometimes. I'm not listed, but I'm trying to train my dad to ask better questions. For his own sake and mine. (and my brothers and aunts and uncles, who also get this information thirdhand.) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmfdm86 112 Report post Posted February 29, 2016 35 minutes ago, badger_14 said: I'm not listed, but I'm trying to train my dad to ask better questions. For his own sake and mine. (and my brothers and aunts and uncles, who also get this information thirdhand.) Damn. Yeah, that sucks. How long have you had the cold? You shouldn't be contagious after a few days. The hospital has to have some sort of protocol to let you still go there. You might even be able to go with your dad to talk with the doctor somewhere you don't have to worry about making patients sick. Sorry if I'm repeating things you've already considered or tried. I work in healthcare and I know the people caring for her don't want you out of the loop. There's gotta be a way. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Monty22 832 Report post Posted March 1, 2016 So the Mrs finished up our tax returns using Turbo Tax and hit "send". Error message comes back indicating someone already filed. .. Awesome. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chadd 916 Report post Posted March 1, 2016 38 minutes ago, Monty22 said: So the Mrs finished up our tax returns using Turbo Tax and hit "send". Error message comes back indicating someone already filed. .. Awesome. That has happened to a few people I know this year Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Monty22 832 Report post Posted March 1, 2016 Looking at credit monitoring services- anybody have any input on this? Looking at "TrustedID"'s family plan, seems decent. .. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IPv6Freely 2092 Report post Posted March 4, 2016 Made the stupid mistake of assuming a cowling swap was a quick and easy job, especially since it's like for like (no new holes needed). If I'd known it was going to take 3-4 hours I would have left home in the morning. 4 hours wasted driving there and back... I got there and he said I'd have to leave them overnight. I had no idea it was such a labor intensive process. Oops. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EJB 488 Report post Posted March 4, 2016 If someone files mine, I hope they'll also pay! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreatestAmericanBeardo 258 Report post Posted March 4, 2016 2 hours ago, EJB said: If someone files mine, I hope they'll also pay! i don't think it could be THAT hard to link an email and cell number to your IRS account, and when taxes are filed you get a notification. i know the criminals could also change that, but it would be a start to notify you, your taxes were filed, and if you didn't file, you could lock the filing and payment. one of my vendors has this happen to him last year, it was such a pain in the ass for him to straighten out. On 3/1/2016 at 9:01 PM, Monty22 said: So the Mrs finished up our tax returns using Turbo Tax and hit "send". Error message comes back indicating someone already filed. .. Awesome. good luck Monty! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
badger_14 601 Report post Posted March 5, 2016 Well, my mom came through her surgery alright, and has been moved back to rehab. But she's pissed about it and wants to come home. Problem is, she's lost 14lbs in the past month while hospitalized, is now down to 93lbs (she's 5'4"), and is so weak she can't climb up even one stair on her own. So she's got to be in rehab and gain some weight back (which I am sure she'll hate, as she thinks she's a fat old lady) and some strength, and not try to sabotage herself. My dad is both concerned and angry. I've been sick (or just worn out from stress) and just trying to get by with my own responsibilities. Even the dog is picking up on all the tension. Virtually all my supportive people are far away and/or working. Hockey and choir are keeping me above water right now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zjack38 46 Report post Posted March 6, 2016 The transition between hockey and track season is awful, this is the sorest I have been in a while. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RadioGaGa 162 Report post Posted March 13, 2016 Why is it that the guy who sends the pregame email saying "...short hard shifts, wingers stay high on the point guys, lots of smart passing and shots..." is the same guy who takes long shifts, coasts, keeps letting his guy free and doesn't pass or shoot exceptionally well? Ugh! 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beerleaguecaptain 999 Report post Posted March 13, 2016 4 hours ago, RadioGaGa said: Why is it that the guy who sends the pregame email saying "...short hard shifts, wingers stay high on the point guys, lots of smart passing and shots..." is the same guy who takes long shifts, coasts, keeps letting his guy free and doesn't pass or shoot exceptionally well? Ugh! 'cause he is the only one willing to put in the time to organize the team. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IPv6Freely 2092 Report post Posted March 13, 2016 "Do as I say, not as I do." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RadioGaGa 162 Report post Posted March 13, 2016 2 hours ago, dkmiller3356 said: 'cause he is the only one willing to put in the time to organize the team. No...not the organizer. He's just the rah rah guy who is always preaching a game plan, but can't follow it himself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmfdm86 112 Report post Posted March 14, 2016 2 hours ago, RadioGaGa said: No...not the organizer. He's just the rah rah guy who is always preaching a game plan, but can't follow it himself. Maybe he's just not good enough to follow it so he hopes by being vocal he can inspire others? I don't know. Lol. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fatwabbit 93 Report post Posted March 14, 2016 6 hours ago, OptimusReim said: "Do as I say, not as I do." Sounds like my wife. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IPv6Freely 2092 Report post Posted March 14, 2016 If it was a skill level thing, sure (I know I definitely give out a lot of suggestions for things I know I myself am not able to execute on), but in this case it definitely sounds like more of an issue with his level of effort. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmfdm86 112 Report post Posted March 14, 2016 52 minutes ago, OptimusReim said: If it was a skill level thing, sure (I know I definitely give out a lot of suggestions for things I know I myself am not able to execute on), but in this case it definitely sounds like more of an issue with his level of effort. Maybe he's just stupid/delusional and doesn't realize he isn't following his own advice. Haha. I give people way too much credit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
