My wife is anti-hockey.
It consumes our winters, my girls and I love it.
I love the way it makes me feel, I am in better shape at 40 than I was at 30.
I love what it does for our girls, physically, mentally, athletically, socially.
My wife doesn't have any hobbies (besides baking and watching reality TV). She says she misses adult interaction, having girl friends, and laments not being in shape.
Duh, I wish she could see that hockey would be a great solution.
For my wife, hockey is cold, boring, and a lot of work (volunteering for our girls hockey association)..for my adult games, I just show up, pay, and play.
My wife doesn't play, despite my efforts to involve her.
I ran the adult beginner program last year. She came twice, it was too late and too cold.
There is a local novice womens league...they play slow, and for fun. She won't try it.
One of her best college friends plays in a novice womens league about 2h away; I told her maybe she could get my wife into it.
That put my wife over the top. (I shouldn't have done that)
She and the mother of my younger daughter's best friend were talking about how they planned to talk the girls out of hockey. WTF?
Time for a Come-To-Jesus meeting.
I hate Come-To-Jesus meetings.
I have to fix my own fuckups (both real and the ones she perceives) before I can ask her to straighten her own shit out.
Been married 18 years. Seems like we do this on a 4-5 year cycle, and the last big donnybrook was about 4.5 years ago, so I guess we're due. :(