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of course not because nobody really does that!

You're ankle is shifting...in the shifts?! ba dun dun tisss

As a person who has cared for a chronically ill spouse for the better part of the last ten years, I have had a few of the same feelings you have had, particularly with feeling selfish with the emotions. I did realise something- you need to take care of yourself so that you can be strong for your friend. Have a cry, get it out, vent, and you will be stronger for your friend. Do take care of yourself and know that you and your friend will be in my prayers.

yes, exactly the same. M8's have more foberglass, less carbon, that's the main difference. The thermoformable material is the same. How long were your skates put in the oven at what temp? All the M8's I've done are very pliable out of the over, Just like the makos

You shouldn't feel selfish about having emotions that are difficult to deal with - it's really hard, and sad, to have someone you care about be sick and suffering. They're real, valid feelings. You might try talking to a therapist; you might try talking to a friend and finding out that hey, they feel the same way. Staying positive and hopeful is great, but come down to it, a loved one sick and hurt plain sucks, and getting wound up in the idea that one needs to stay positive does more harm than good for a lot of people. It's not like feeling angry, or overwhelmed, or scared, cancels out your concern for your friend, nor does it cancel out how she feels about her situation. I'm sorry you and your friend are going through such a tough thing.